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Parenting time

Parenting time you can both see

Set up your regular pattern once and see it for months ahead. Handover times sit on the calendar, and nothing changes until you both agree.

One subscription covers everyone.

Parenting timeSet up your pattern
Every other weekendWeek on, week off2-2-3Custom

Preview: first two weeks

MTWTFSS
MTWTFSS
With youWith Blake
StartsMonday 5 October
HandoversSchool pickup, 15:15
Save pattern

Choose a pattern

Every other weekendEvery other weekend plus a midweek nightWeek on, week off2-2-3Custom cycle

Week on, week off

MonTueWedThuFri⇄ 15:15SatSun
MonTueWedThuFri⇄ 15:15SatSun
With youWith Blake

Patterns

Start from the pattern you already use

Every other weekend, week on week off, 2-2-3, or a cycle of your own. Pick a start date and the app fills in the months ahead, so you can both see where the children are on any day.

Want to know what your pattern adds up to over a year? The free parenting time calculator counts the nights in each home.

  • Common patterns ready to pick
  • Custom cycles for everything else
  • Preview before you save

Handovers

Handovers with times

Each handover shows when and where it happens, and the day splits at that time. Nobody has to ask who is doing pickup.

Next handovers

Wednesday 14 October15:15 · School pickupTo Blake
Friday 16 October18:00 · Blake’s homeTo you
Wednesday 21 October15:15 · School pickupTo Blake
With you until Wednesday 15:15
Christmas breakSchool holiday
21 to 27 DecemberWith you
28 December to 3 JanuaryWith Blake
Your regular pattern picks up again on Monday 4 January.
Swap: Saturday 7 NovemberAgreed

One-off change. The base pattern stays as it is.

Holidays and swaps

School holidays and swaps sit on top

Add Christmas, the summer or a one-off swap without touching your regular pattern. When the holiday ends, the usual routine picks up again.

Approvals

Nothing changes until the other parent agrees

Changes to parenting time are requests. The calendar updates only when the other parent accepts. Silence never counts as a yes, and nobody can approve their own request.

Swap weekendsWaiting for Blake
NowWith Blake, 17 to 18 October
ProposedWith you, 17 to 18 October
Not yet agreed. Nothing changes until Blake accepts.
Blake’s view
Accept changeSuggest another time

Questions

Common questions

Something else on your mind? Visit the help centre.

Can I set it up before the other parent joins?

Yes. You can put in your arrangement on your own. It’s marked as unconfirmed until the other parent joins and confirms it or suggests changes.

What if our arrangement doesn’t fit a standard pattern?

Choose a custom cycle and set which days are with each parent. Holidays and one-off changes go on top.

Does the app decide or enforce our arrangement?

No. It’s a shared calendar. It shows what you have both agreed. It doesn’t make or enforce decisions.

What happens if the other parent doesn’t reply to a change?

Nothing changes. The request stays open until they accept or decline it, or you withdraw it.

Try it free for a month

Set up your schedule tonight and invite the other parent when you’re ready. One subscription covers everyone on your family calendar.

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One account on the web, iPhone and Android. Use whichever suits you, or all three.

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