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Changes and approvals

Swap a weekend without the back and forth

Propose a change and the other parent gets a clear request. The calendar only updates once they accept. Silence never counts as a yes.

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Requests
Swap weekendsWaiting
NowWith Blake, 17 to 18 Oct
ProposedWith you, 17 to 18 Oct
Proposed: with you until Sunday 18:00
Extra evening, Wed 21 OctAgreed

Blake accepted on Monday 12 October

Half day, Fri 30 OctDeclined

Nothing changed

Now

MonTueWedThuFriSatSun

If Blake accepts

MonTueWedThuFriSatSun
With youWith Blake
Friday 15:15 to Sunday 18:00 would move to you

Proposals

See exactly what would change

A request shows the calendar as it is now and as it would be, so there’s no room for misreading dates or times.

Answers

A clear yes, no or another time

The other parent can accept, decline or suggest another time. You can withdraw a request before they answer. If nobody answers, nothing changes.

Swap weekendsWaiting for Blake
NowWith Blake, 17 to 18 October
ProposedWith you, 17 to 18 October
Not yet agreed. Nothing changes until Blake accepts.
Blake’s view
Note from youWork trip that weekend. Could we swap?
Accept changeSuggest another time

Questions

Common questions

Something else on your mind? Visit the help centre.

Can I approve my own request?

No. A change to parenting time always needs the other parent to accept it.

What if the other parent never answers?

Nothing changes. Silence never counts as a yes. The request stays open until it’s answered or withdrawn.

Do all changes need approval?

No. Only parenting time changes do. Everyday events, like a dentist appointment, just notify the other parent.

Try it free for a month

Set up your schedule tonight and invite the other parent when you’re ready. One subscription covers everyone on your family calendar.

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